{"id":444,"date":"2026-05-15T13:13:08","date_gmt":"2026-05-15T13:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/?p=444"},"modified":"2026-05-15T13:24:24","modified_gmt":"2026-05-15T13:24:24","slug":"poly-role-play-cards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/en\/poly-role-play-cards\/","title":{"rendered":"Poly Role Play Cards"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Together with my friend Sam we came up with a concept for a <strong>Poly Role Play<\/strong> game. The goal is to have fun and reflect by role playing different situations that come up in non-monogamous relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To play, you use this <a href=\"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Cards-Printable.pdf\" data-type=\"attachment\" data-id=\"445\">deck of cards that you can print<\/a> \u2014 or you can also <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/presentation\/d\/1lh7eVkfMV-85MjHthNM2YVI2R_g5q2atSqyqMWvQOx8\/edit\">make a copy of it and edit<\/a> on your own:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"\">You are non-monogamous partners<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Decide jointly on an imagined location (e.g., caf\u00e9)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Decide who is <strong>A<\/strong> and who is <strong>B<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\"><strong>A<\/strong> draws two \u201cobjective&#8221; cards, keeps one, does not show it<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\"><strong>B<\/strong> draws two &#8220;character\u201d cards, keeps one, does not show it<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\"><strong>A<\/strong> will role play as themselves initiating a conversation on the objective, while <strong>B<\/strong> plays as the chosen character<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Role play for 3 to 5 minutes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Talk about the conversation (what feelings, thoughts, etc. did it bring)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Cards-Printable.pdf\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"409\" src=\"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Objectives-1024x409.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Objectives-1024x409.png 1024w, https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Objectives-300x120.png 300w, https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Objectives-768x306.png 768w, https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Objectives.png 1085w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Variations:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"\">You can choose a third person as an observer that watches the game.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">You can go through the cards in order.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">You can repeat a situation but swap roles.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\">Or, you can find your own ways of playing!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Feel free to copy this game, and extend this game, as long as you give proper credit!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/chato.cl\/life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2026-Poly-Role-Play-Cards-Printable.pdf\">Download a printable copy of the cards here \u00bb<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/presentation\/d\/1lh7eVkfMV-85MjHthNM2YVI2R_g5q2atSqyqMWvQOx8\/edit\">Copy the cards and edit them \u00bb<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A deck of cards to role play difficult situations in 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